I’m tired; tired of listening to horrific stories of gang rapes happening in India. And then there is an outcry throughout the country asking for Capital Punishment for the animals who did this. I’m tired of people trying to find a solution for a problem after it has happened.
Yes, I say all of you are wrong. All this would never have happened if you all taught your sons to respect women in the first place.
There’s not a day goes by when I’m browsing on Facebook or other social networking sites, where I don’t see boys and men talk about women like they have every right to talk about women in the most demeaning way possible. Men of today cannot seem to talk about women in any other context other than Sex.
Of course I don’t say all men are pigs. But sure a majority are!
It is 2012, and yet families are praying to have a baby boy. Why? Baby boys will bring name and fame and dowry to the family. And then, these baby boys are brought up and taught that the sun shines out of their asses. They are shown that their mothers will sacrifice everything so that they can have more in life. But no, they are not taught to respect them and be grateful for this. Instead what they learn from this is- it is every woman’s duty to sacrifice everything and stay home and take care of the men and fulfill each and every wish and whim of these same men.
So, when these baby boys grow up and come out into the world and see independent woman who speak their minds and stand tall among the men of the world, they cannot even pretend to try to understand this. These baby boys are outraged at how these women can look them in the eye and talk as their equals.
See, I don’t think there will be an end to these rapes. In fact, I feel, there might be rapists out there watching the news this very second analyzing what these perpetrators did wrong and how they would do this better without getting caught.
Root cause of the problem is in us. Women and Men, start teaching your sons to respect women. When women wear modern clothes, they are not “asking for your son’s d*ck inside them”. When women laugh and talk to other males, they are not sluts asking to be propositioned.
And if you can’t teach your sons to respect women, then teach them to play with their own ‘instruments’ instead of walking around looking for a place to stick it. Ask your sons to mind their own business instead of looking for a way to punish these outstanding educated women who are way better than them.
Why should a girl suffer just so a man can feel good about himself and give himself an ego boost by demeaning her?
NOTE: Yeah, I know it looks like I am shouting and ranting. But then, after the injustice done to that poor girl, there cannot be any coherent words to describe how one feels.